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You know what's on that he would say it was hidden from you writing you can. She'll continue grants -- Isn't that kinda went and I'll wait and another and if I'm I had a moment I'm sorry for this moment. How about it and call. I had a moment you have not okay can you tell me -- of them you well you did that being -- I would say that about fifty. If you won again. I can see down again it's no. You know we have been one of our favorite segment that we do here. I'm heard some feedback from from the people and they like this hot flashes and it's common it is coming and we have. Hot flash news once again we're not getting this deployed and you know why would you not getting hit anywhere else that he passed. If that talk radio 13% -- -- -- out -- 830 at night we'd do hot flashes and I usually. Insulated that we -- Not tonight. I know it's no surprise but those of you were listening. You know I was so excited about. During people run in the news about kidnapping. So he couldn't he couldn't read boom. And I was just so I thought I was like at. And then. -- all of her. He all the ads out and it wasn't. The -- thing in my fifth amend it handed to them that didn't want to leave -- -- and -- it. And I come to. -- AT down and I'm yeah. He did it. And felt I have to put both of these mean. And I'm not flash. News segment because we're coming and it right now. From two. -- -- So I tell you girlfriends at home mom. Billy and everybody up and we're gonna talk about this from home one. So -- the end okay my view. This is congressman. First of you you find out what. NN. We -- -- -- you get to know each other. -- -- -- -- -- You put -- these ingredients and how do it couldn't I didn't have phone company a -- and it's no intent. Okay thank you -- you move on with this thing. This year due to this is looking that they will want it now I know he. I don't like them. -- -- -- for one -- I use that mom doesn't have much you don't take a break. If you don't Fiat. 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You know this thinking that person that -- that nothing bad. -- -- If I didn't gallop back up travel backed up again with India itself. Don't begin knowledge that now I wanted to -- -- -- this -- segment that's going to be what -- big -- -- As you well -- community when big mama that. Came through for. And nobody's saying anything about big -- when she spoke -- that you hit down but the chipping up. And exit the room and so. Just don't think -- -- I. -- I'm just I'm gonna work with big month -- a little bit okay. Felt good studio tonight we're so excited himself around I've I've met this wonderful year. And she is the author of the book that I don't -- -- And so I want to introduce to you. Death mean machine. -- -- -- -- Okay. Now we had to leave that family. We were at the Texas women's group created an iPhone. And your book. I'm not. And I just went to come from very big question that -- Couldn't come up with a tight. Well first off I'd like to thank you for having. -- I was actually. Enough and you had the jazz. It was definitely familiar with the and I was out with a friend. And -- just so happened that in position that these were watching he was there and I have a question. And during the break during his free. From playing he came over and you know. And he just to tell me how beautiful. I was so he. And you know at first the first time thanks and NA and kept saying it kept thanking him. But it's not kept saying it meant so I just began to lift and think while he was talking. And I thought that. He wants something to happen keep things you're beautiful like it's that you know should stand out more open sesame. You know something and I thought that magical with the you have to look at and I thought that you know had it been a year prior. I might as. Given intervention -- open sesame you know response that he wanted -- But I was just really interested that there was a different person listening to. And that the person Pryor has changed everything that transpired throughout that year. That brought you to win the one that I'm really now ready. You know I you have to really into Reston. Lesson. Better end. And so let's just start -- Because he's making. Yeah. -- -- Mean. -- We'll did not give -- -- -- hundred. This lesson was inspired by my lovely imagined. Okay I have a great imagination and that -- young person if it fits my heart and I would often. Happens they had to. And I imagine. Three romance you can only on Indianapolis young. And so what would happen at that can -- in the book. Is when a guy would approach you for the compliment. You'll play enough. Automatically signal these fantasies that I have been holding in my thin and winking -- say -- before I would say wolf that means. You know the number gonna ride off into the sunset together you can think that you know. And you know what -- thing. And I think that's where we all. Man. OK don't try to read into it right okay disinfectant. Right and that's what the right -- again and really and it goes into left into balancing. More reality with the -- because I'm not telling women or girls to give up your fairy tale -- I'm saying -- And reality and look at. OK and so can you give them. That's efforts to keep making them a -- made a little ice dancing with an if something OK okay well the first thing. The take away from less -- one is to. And the way you view this is the first and foremost actually -- What that guy. What is the thing he says -- beautiful -- -- mean you think should be. Nothing out strapping yet that sit here you know karma no black and -- should be a and as I suggest in the book if you. We want to analyze his comments or his behavior you can do so by matching up his comments with behavior over here. Ended his actions lineup with Clinton thing and then he might be someone whose work it. But if he's saying one thing and he's doing another thing that seems an opposition to what thing then that's called a mixed message. In which case I would suggest you not worth your effort and time in -- week. For I was a kid where -- -- methods and again I think it's important to put that vocabulary out there especially for. Because we encounter anything that you know middle school high school but you don't really understand what's happening with the win give girls the vocabulary of deepening in the message. Then you can put it in context you know what to. And and because we talked before we come here. And you know we like to sit down and -- for the amount of reviving the parade and and and use that affecting you and we know you. 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Not that into you and give it all mixed up because she can't say the mother don't care model from the playground and their mom not to have such as you know. -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- And did everything and I think that's what's still happening today just for young women who have little room. You as well. And we think that being that bad behavior. Mean. In the future appears to me and to the two mountains and we have the beautiful. And cats were nice if you cannot in good faith -- -- is calling and the list views Dorothea from here tonight because. She was a fine person and Washington tonight. Doing -- using. Unfair. I'm you hear the wedding you know apart on -- And and know you were the bride's -- what -- think he might do if I can write me a little bit. Our current isn't really it lives but think that the people -- wedding I'm fired I -- -- and make me. Out of it farther away at -- At the APEC summit and I'm very flat -- ahead -- the scope. But the buffet area that an unknown you know what it's like you're already here -- -- -- here because for the simple fact that. You called me and mean and you've just experienced team. Now I thought that counts I have more time with them it could feel look I thought Americans and their -- -- and yeah constant nightmare. Okay we'll quiet it down we love you have fun you really well out here lately I've hit that back. So we fans that the movie from he's just not that into you we have author of the book just because these things -- you. Stepping -- okay. And so. Bad behavior which in turn things maybe she doesn't mean that it's a good thing for -- -- and analysts thought about it in the book I mean. It. Heat all the time. Learned you know you know does all these crazy things he's really into the ground. Now I think a lot of content what do you ladies and I don't think it is. In less than four of the book. You have to sacrifice logic in the name of love that listen sport. Aid from my experiences. We love I have full down to four components -- at least the -- basic campaign number one respect. Commitment. Joy can and much. Want to I want because I think it's a lot here. That I think can. And I'm still younger and defend and even younger. A little bit because you hit him. Yeah you know and thank you bring you bring this to happen because they haven't won him the winning head to -- -- today. These are you see. And going to be granted. And -- so they met at UT. And evidently you know film and committed. Two when. And and got married I mean it that's what I used to. -- -- -- Me I mean now -- flight data gathered for twenty years and men or women get married. This is twenty years. -- -- -- -- -- Hello hello again I'm. Hey yeah. So I think it was a year out of -- because they can -- so much of what -- so my -- Kimura. Everytime they live. Hey and could be your name I you know key. -- of Manhattan happens golden opportunity. We just want to hurt the pump fake thank you. Thank you for the I cannot remember you think I don't think even debated the children and the background. We can't back I haven't you are a poor. Are you here this week I -- anywhere that this veteran he added this is -- committed father. And found kit -- can you give us any tips about love and staying committed and the proceeds it just give us yeah. Just come on July -- I'm here at all in your. Right my my my input on as far right -- Relationships. I think I've figured the ball which that I chemistry and communication. Around me and I. If it is -- it viewing it you think you know. Papelbon. Then it is important is that you don't communicate we. And they know they have to fly into the main power -- -- relate to keep you. Been involved wife and -- both. You -- and it won't let you know last I wanna say thank you can't for calling in and they need to be doing now he's shown giving -- love and support. Take care to always thank you okay. I think you. Today. So that testing confession should have put it. I'm gonna do things -- -- -- -- that it just putting fourteen yeah and you know what happens but we. We get and say this about the tune him out if two -- we have to be care. And Stanford and I had become kind of you know I really like the -- -- And to get them. I mean if you want me to share my pillow with you I mean we take a person. Well we don't know it was close -- okay you want me to cut for. How do you discover and I am kind of you know now we're fifteen. You know in one. Mormons you women because. You know. But it's interesting. That bring that up. Because when I originally wrote the book I wrote it war I had a teenage girls and I'm from but when I share with. I'm thirty and some women thirty and older I'm here with them the title very interest only 810 yeah well nick and I think that. Chapter what I. Experience so far has gotten them most. Response so far from the -- women would be. Less than five. Being single is not the end of the world really did. OK and with that lesson I've got a lot of good. Positive. And really the negative that lessens fees to no news yet. -- any you can get -- And in knowing yourself. You know and don't like to cook anymore. Then that's okay knowing Mac and thing that. And -- -- -- -- and being willing to be but apart they appreciate that like. I mean if he could. I don't mind. People. Rene -- its own mind Renee Powell. Hello all I hope you're enjoying -- yeah the thing we're doing Monterey. Head out equipment into the conversations are divided on the am enjoying it but that he's definitely got him you know -- -- played it -- a -- Because a man owe you something minutes. You can you know run off and take complicated you know make a whole bunch of other -- new meaning winning -- playing -- and I think that's. A problem with a lot of women out there I felt like this -- payday that's a compliment you know whatever from that significant other that malveaux at the same kind. It's because he says here you know what does that mean that. He won that seat she nor any time you know I just wouldn't speak about a concept I really that they do enjoy the army -- -- that you are happy. What at an -- and the caller I -- -- color I know I don't like this year ages but -- TV in the when he found and age group. Earn points for our time honestly -- age -- now I'm content. Some things correctly in my life you know relationship quiet and I find myself in my technique that is filthy. Should be thankful -- yeah I don't have a problem with being single you'd like you get that the the timing your life I felt like he gets it really know you can't get to know what you want you to manipulate its. We let's send you elaborate name that that was very encouraging for all the -- and we're listening right now that pain being -- well for a minute. Can be a great thing -- a great game live client at -- all right take -- thank you Gatorade and rule. Hot water rich. Something along the up and and you and I know that I have seen. I'm really enjoy my fade. And and and and I am I'm maturing I'm. Even enjoying. Myself even more. Even you know and so we're going to start raping in this beautiful show up -- before week -- I want to ask you. What would seem like us to take away the most important and. The most important thing that I would like this. And we've already that if that's really. Carve out time to get to. Love yourself being you're able to love someone. If you don't have it yet. And instead -- people want to. Be able to. Followed you went later on your beloved or even get the book how can -- following the game at. -- several ways. Number one but -- -- that and Smart art done dot com. And my book just because he says if beautiful is available on Amazon as well as Barnes & Noble dot com. Room I tell you this this show was yeah I think it was -- I think it was a show that it needed to. I felt I -- fifty. And thankfully. I'm well thanks. I'm proud of you -- he completed you can. Thank Keith and things that they control what you can and some of them -- fictional film from. And felt and Tino. Next Saturday we do have that she read her show -- filmmaker contacted me and he. Thought that I 2000 film festival and we're going to be talking about this -- he's gonna kick it off a thirty city tour. You can't stand and though it's called. He mentions. And if I'm right so May Day and why don't you just don't wanna take it sounds okay. Until next Saturday. Statement. Okay. That's a big my career because I got. Kind of sit around in front like gang.